In many organisations, when tension arises between colleagues or between staff and managers, the default route is well-established: an informal chat, followed by a formal grievance, sometimes progressing to disciplinary action. These systems are policy-driven and legally compliant—but are they actually resolving the issues?
Evidence increasingly suggests they’re not.
The Financial Reality of Conflict Workplace conflict costs UK employers an estimated £28.5 billion each year—more than £1,000 per employee. (Read that again !)
Much of that cost isn’t due to the conflict itself, but how it’s managed: long grievance processes, lost productivity, employee churn, and reputational damage.
Grievances often polarise positions. Disciplinaries can feel punitive, not restorative. The outcome may tick a legal box, but leave the relationship—and the wider team dynamic—damaged.
In fact, only one in three employees is satisfied with how workplace conflict is resolved. That figure should concern any business serious about engagement, retention, and culture.
The Missed Opportunity: Empowering Early Action What if we offered a better path—sooner?
At Mediation Rescue, we believe employees should be able to request mediation themselves before conflict escalates. A neutral, facilitated conversation helps clarify misunderstandings, rebuild trust, and foster mutual respect.
It’s not about blame—it’s about understanding.
An early-stage mediation or a facilitated conversation is:
· Voluntary and impartial
· Quick to arrange (often within days)
· Focused on psychological safety and long-term resolution ( particularly when skilled external Mediators are engaged.)
· Aligned with legal obligations around duty of care and wellbeing
It benefits both the individual and the organisation.
Traditional Systems Leave Gaps Many employers assume their grievance processes are enough. Legally, they might be. But policy alone doesn’t resolve tension.
Grievances and disciplinaries are formal, slow, and often emotionally charged. They’re seen as last resorts. Mediation, by contrast, is early, empathetic, and collaborative.
When organisations empower employees to request mediation—without stigma or hierarchy—they demonstrate a progressive, people-first culture.
Shaping Cultures that Solve, Not Escalate
Imagine a workplace where:
· An employee feeling undermined could ask for a facilitated conversation instead of raising a formal complaint
· A manager noticing tension could act quickly to bring in a neutral third party
· HR had a defined and supportive early intervention process—not just informal side chats or rigid policy enforcement
Creating Conditions for Collaborative Resolutions :
From Grievance to Collaboration : To move beyond grievance culture, organisations must embrace Collaborative Conflict Management—an approach that includes early mediation, facilitated discussions, and proactive diagnostics like organisational health audits.
If you’re looking to reduce the cost and emotional strain of conflict in your workplace, consider building systems that support early, human-centred resolution.
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